The people you surround yourself with have a tremendous impact on the person you become.
Over the years at times, I have had to separate myself from certain people. Having them in my life was bringing me down and preventing me from rising to where I needed to be. This wasn’t me being judgmental of others, or feeling that I was better than they were. It was simply making a decision about what I wanted to be and what I wanted for my life.
I choose to surround myself with people who I share common interests with, people who make me feel good, and people who encourage and motivate me to reach my highest potential. It’s a mutual exchange, as I offer the same to those people.
It’s impossible to be around negative people and not be effected in some way. It’s emotionally draining. It’s physically draining. It’s draining to reaching your life’s potential.
Every one of us will struggle with a challenge or personal setback at some point. This experience might involve a major disappointment, being rejected in some way, the loss of a loved one, etc. In that particular situation, our reaction may be negative. That’s part of being human, and those negative feelings are usually temporary. It’s a process that we must go through.
Random events and unfortunate circumstances are one thing. But, have you ever known people who seem to thrive on negativity? The words they speak are negative. Their actions are negative. Their attitudes are negative. Everything about them seems to be negative. It’s no wonder that negativity becomes apart of their everyday lives.
Some people seem to be caught up in a never-ending cycle of negativity. Truth is, if they aren’t purposefully doing anything to change, there’s a good chance that things will continue that way. Beware. Misery loves company. People in a cycle of negativity like to pull others in. If you’re not careful, it could be you spinning right along with them.
In every experience, there is a lesson to be learned. Through many of those lessons, I have learned the importance of surrounding myself with people who lift me up rather than pull me down. These days, I know better. When you know better, you do better.
If you’re reading this now and feeling like you need to let go of some negativity in your life, understand that the choice is yours. You get to decide when it’s time to say: no more negativity. Remember, this is not being judgmental of others, or saying that you are better than they are. It is simply announcing to everyone who you want to be and what you want for your life.
Now that you know better, do better.